Patricia “Pat” (Kaple) Wechter, 93, was called to her eternal home on March 1, 2022. Known as Pat to most, “Aunt Pat” to many, she was born July 16, 1928 in New Washington and spent her entire life in the New Washington community. Pat was a loving, caring and kind person who knew no stranger and welcomed everyone. Her home was always a place to gather with family and friends where a meal, a pie, and a hug were always ready for anyone who came to visit. Although she always had a story or memory to share, she was always more interested in you than herself.
Pat graduated from New Washington High School where she met her life-long love, Sylvester, “Sonny” Wechter. After high school, Pat attended beauty school in Toledo and later was a beautician, even owning her own salon called “Pattie’s Beauty Shop”. She married Sonny on August 19, 1950 and celebrated the next 69 years together. They raised four children Joseph (Lynn Murphy), John (Dawn Trimboli), Angela (John Schroeder), and James (Marjorie Hamilton). They thoroughly enjoyed their ten grandchildren: Sheila (Brad) Fletcher, Brad Wechter, Rachel Smith (Nate Merritt), Andrew (Marianna) Wechter, Austin (Ashley) Wechter, Anthony (Tara) Schroeder, Cara (Chris) Russell, Casey Wechter (Brian Crist), Eric Wechter, and Caden Hall. They also have 15 great grandchildren.
After their children were raised, Pat and Sonny enjoyed traveling and most of all, following and celebrating their grandchildren’s events and achievements. Family was primarily their focus and her love for them was her legacy.
Pat also loved to bake, shop, play cards, dance and crochet. She had made and given away dozens of beautiful afghans and baby blankets over her lifetime. She was also a faithful member St. Bernard’s Catholic Church and Rosary Alter Society in New Washington. Pat instilled a strong faith life in her family.
Pat was preceded in death by her parents Bernard and Anna (Martin) Kaple, her husband, Sylvester “Sonny” Wechter, her nine siblings Bernard “Bud” Kaple, Dolly (Uhl), Vincent Kaple, Martina (Shackelford), John Kaple, Joan (Ervin), Jim Kaple, Donald Kaple, and Fr. Timon Kaple; and grandsons Mark Schroeder and Brad Wechter, all of whom she was so fond. She is survived by her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews who shared a special bond with her.
Friends and family may attend a funeral mass officiated by Fr. George W. Mahas at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in New Washington, OH at 12:00 p.m. on Friday, March 4, 2022. Per Pat’s request, in lieu of calling hours, her family would like to welcome everyone to a celebration dinner and gathering that will follow immediately after mass at St. Bernard’s gymnasium. Assisting the family with arrangements is Secor Funeral Homes. A private family burial will take place at St. Bernard’s Catholic cemetery at a later date.
Memorial donations may be made to St. Bernard’s Catholic Church, Stein Hospice, 1912 Hayes Avenue, Sandusky, OH 44870, and O.F.M. Capuchins, Brother James Mungovin OFMCAP, Province of St. Augustine, 220 37th Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15201. Online condolences may be made at http://www.secorfuneralhomes.com.
Condolences
Anita kraft - Mar 12, 2022
Being an out of towner, I receive the Herald late. I was saddened to read of Pat’s passing. There are a lot of fond memories from our childhood. We all came from wonderful parents, community and a wonderful era. We were very blessed. With deepest sympathy, Anita “Need”
Erik and Denise - Mar 8, 2022
What a wonderful woman. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sharon Kay Moore - Mar 8, 2022
Jim and family - we are so sorry to learn of the loss of your mother. She was always such a pleasant and really nice person to be around! A nice long life she had!! We remember her especially when your dad played in the New Washington Town Band - loved to sit and talk with her. And, of course, Scott who spent lots of time at your home when in HS. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. I know it is always hard to loose ones parents. Take care, Gene, Sharon and Scott
Betsy (Eckstein) Ireland and family - Mar 7, 2022
My condolences on the loss of your mom. Pat was always warm and welcoming. I knew Mom and Dad were watched over when we couldn’t be there and they enjoyed her visits tremendously. Many happy hours were spent at your home while I was growing up. My sons would always want to visit when we came home for the weekend too. May God watch over you through this difficult time.
Lynne Schneider - Mar 7, 2022
So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. It was a nice neighborly feeling with Pat and Sonny living down the hall from dad at the Willows. Cherish all your good memories. Prayers to all.
Debbi Watkins - Mar 6, 2022
So sorry for your loss.
Bob & Viki Deruy - Mar 6, 2022
Sorry for your loss. Thoughts & prayers during this difficult time.
Charles & Mary Ferguson - Mar 5, 2022
To The Family of Pat Wechter. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Charisse Finn - Mar 5, 2022
I am so sorry for your loss. 'When someone you loves becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.' You have my sincere sympathy.
Jon Shackelford - Mar 5, 2022
Dear Joe, John, Angel and Jim, Thinking of your family at the loss of your mother -- dear "Aunt Pat." She filled my every visit to New Washington with love and joy. And remembering your father also with much fondness. What a great team they always seemed. May the God of Peace bring you comfort and assurances of her rest now in Him, and the sure hope of reuniting again in eternity. Affectionately, Jon
Mark Ebbeskotte - Mar 5, 2022
My deepest sympathy to the entire Wechter family, but especially to Jim and his family. May you find comfort in knowing that Pat is with our loving Lord. May God grant you comfort and peace in the coming days.
Pat and Marci Teynor - Mar 4, 2022
Our condolences to all of you. She was such a lovely person, inside and out. We thought so much of her.
Bob Kanney - Mar 4, 2022
Sorry for your loss. Pat was a nice lady. God be with you.
Julie Wechter Dilenschneider - Mar 4, 2022
So sorry to hear of Aunt Patty's passing and, with it, the last of that generation of wonderful people that raised us. Thinking of you all and holding you close in my heart and prayers.
Neal Kaple - Mar 3, 2022
Sorry to hear the news of Aunt Pat's. She special person in so many ways. I pray she a piece. My condolences to the Wecther family .
Roger Donnamiller and Family - Mar 3, 2022
So sorry to hear about your loss! May god bless her and her entire family
Tom Eckstein and Diane Harder - Mar 3, 2022
Pat was a beacon of happiness in our neighborhood when we grew up. And was a good friend and watched over our parents as they aged. We greatly enjoyed her notes each year helping us keep track of the ever expanding list of grand- and great grand kids, all of which she was so proud of. We are sorry for your lose but join in celebrating a great soul.
Alice Alt - Mar 3, 2022
Sorry for your loss - God Speed.
Jeff and Debbie Pifher - Mar 3, 2022
We are so sorry to here of the loss of Pat. She was a truly special person and always had a kind word. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat & Sue Logsdon - Mar 3, 2022
We are sorry for the loss of Pat. She was a wonderful person with a listening ear, friendly smile and love of her faith and family.
Dale and Linda Schroeder - Mar 3, 2022
So sorry for your loss, prayers for the family
Mark & Valerie Wondrash - Mar 3, 2022
To Jim and family, so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. Thoughts and prayers with and for you.
