Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him; may his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
Gerald Francis McKown of Plymouth, Ohio, passed from this world on December 31, 2023, surrounded by his five daughters. He was born on July 13, 1936, to John T. and Agnes (nee Phillips) McKown during a summer heatwave on the family farm where he lived the majority of his wonderful life.
Left to cherish his memory are his devoted daughters and their husbands: Gail (Rick) Kray; Lynne (Carlos) Rivera; Jane (Mike) Hinterlong; Anne (Rob) Webb; and Jennifer (Chris) Marshall. He had sixteen grandchildren who lovingly called him Pappy: Kevin (Erika), Daniel (Kaitlyn) and Ryan Kray; Michael, Ellie, and Grace Rivera; Sam, Joe, and Annie Hinterlong; Andrew, Allison, and Lauren Webb; Susannah (Fabian) Azofeifa; and Alice, Stephen, and Mary Marshall. He valued time spent with his four great grandchildren: Evelyn, Olivia, Joe, and Callum. He was pre-deceased by his loving wife, Carolyn Kay (nee Schadek); they were married on 7-7-77 and spent over forty-two years together before her death.
Dad was a tool and die maker at General Motors for forty-five years, often commenting, “I get to go to work.”
He enjoyed reading about the Saint of the Day, keeping up on current events in The Plain Dealer, and Face Timing with his family. Dad loved reading, especially historical works.
A devout Catholic, Dad prayed daily and was a lifelong, active member of St. Joseph’s; from being an altar boy for Father Conces in his youth to helping with annual festivals and turkey dinners as an adult, he lived a life of service. A generous man, he quietly found those in need and provided for them in the most caring and compassionate ways.
He loved gardening; from perusing the seed catalogs and local nurseries to planting (some would argue too many) tomatoes, peppers, and squash, he nurtured his garden through the summer. He preserved the fruits of his (our) labor during the annual tomato juice-making event which concluded with our shelves being lined with rows (and rows) of Mason jars that would last us through the winter. Dad also liked making and bottling fine wine.
He spent much of his life in his barns where family and friends would warm themselves beside the wood-burning stove and share a drink (or two) of Jimmy. He was sure of the date as calendars were prominent.
He enjoyed woodworking and was never without a pocketknife. Dad loved watching and identifying the birds outside his windows; he patiently waited for the Baltimore Orioles’ return every summer and made sure the hummingbirds and cardinals were well-fed.
Dad spent many hours playing Euchre with both friends and family and taught his grandchildren rules they will pass on to their children (including stealing the deal and the 9 of <3 never gets Euchred). While playing cards, he was quick to sing or whistle along to Johnny Cash, George Jones, and Tom T. Hall.
Dad liked watching football, cheering on the Buckeyes, the Irish, and the Browns; during football season he helped make the weekly picks for Zu’s Football Pool.
He enjoyed getting mail (and the “free” stuff) from the St. Joseph Indian School and reading Farm and Dairy.
Dad liked a road trip, visiting his daughters (frequently without notice) and touring Civil War battlefields, imparting a love of history on his daughters and grandchildren. On these trips, he would often leave quietly in the early morning hours.
He never met a stranger and had many loyal lifelong friends, most conversations beginning with “What do ya know?”.
We will miss the twinkle in his blue eyes, his strong hands rubbing our feet, and his voice beckoning us with “Yoo Hoo.”
We will welcome friends and family for calling hours at Secor’s Funeral Home (35 Railroad St., Plymouth, OH 44865) on Friday, January 5th from 3pm-7pm with the Rosary being recited at 7pm.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, January 6th at 1pm at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church (117 Sandusky St., Plymouth, OH 44865). Burial will be at Maple Grove Cemetery in New Haven immediately following the mass.
Please consider a donation in Gerald’s memory to St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Plymouth, OH, St. Joseph’s Indian School (Chamberlin, South Dakota), or The Sorrowful Mother Shrine in Bellevue, Ohio.
We close this remembrance with the words of Bobby Bare, one of Dad’s favorites:
“Dropkick me, Jesus, through the goalposts of life
End over end, neither left, nor the right
Straight through the heart of them righteous uprights
Dropkick me, Jesus, through the goalposts of life.”
Online condolences may be made to Gerald's family by visiting www.secorfuneralhomes.com
Condolences
Trisha/Jim - Jan 9, 2024
Our hearts go out to Gail, Lynne, Jane, Anne, Jenny and your families. Such devoted daughters, spending time for the past few years, making sure Jerry always had a companion . We loved going to Willard to visit with Jerry and Caroline, especially for the Annual Ox Roast. They were such gracious host to all of us traveling for the weekend event. The love and stories Jerry shared, trickled down to his grandchildren and great grandchildren, who share his family’s traditions and loving memories. What a sweet, kind, caring man who will be greatly missed.
Wendy Daniel - Jan 5, 2024
Thinking of you girls and your families. Your Dad was so proud of all of you and he left you with so many great memories to cherish. Sending you prayers of comfort and peace.
Val - Jan 5, 2024
I remember playing schoolhouse in your basement just to keep us kids out of the way. Love you girls he will truly be missed. Love you Uncle Jerry.
CINDY VAN WAGNER-ALT - Jan 5, 2024
Dear McKown girls & families, So sorry to hear of the loss of Uncle Gerald. He always had a kind word and big smile whenever you were to see him. May God's love and your special memories bring you peace in the difficult days ahead. God Bless, Cindy
Stephanie Mulvane Wells - Jan 4, 2024
Jenny sorry for loss of your dad. i will keep your family in my prayers
Jeff - Jan 4, 2024
I remember your dad as a kind soul and a customer. Spoke with him many times at St. Joseph. Sorry for your loss.
Deborah Rosenberg - Jan 3, 2024
Dear McKown Girl Cousins, I am so sorry to hear of Uncle Jerry's passing. What a wonderful tribute this obituary is. I am so glad you could all be there by his side. I know he will be missed. God's love and comfort to you all. Cousin Debbie
Kenneth Kuhn - Jan 3, 2024
I am so sorry for your loss. He made a great contribution in the form of five daughters. Even though I did not know them all, I am sure they are all good girls and I am sure he had much to do with it. He must have been a GREAT man!!!
Sheila Tucker - Jan 3, 2024
I'm so sorry for your loss. Many thoughts and prayers.
Amy (Flynn) Savick - Jan 3, 2024
I’m very sorry for your loss. I went to elementary school with Jenny, at that age I didn’t realize all he did/knew. What a great man you were all blessed with.
Robert and Shirley - Jan 3, 2024
We are so sorry for the loss of your father. When we lose someone , like your father, they continue to live through us and give unbelievable strength .They're so connected to us that they become part of us. Jerry you left your family with beautiful memories .With heartfelt sympathy Shirley and Bob.
Dona Persiani - Jan 2, 2024
Jennifer - I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time, and always! Love Dona
Grace Mcintosh - Jan 2, 2024
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved Father🙏 Anne shared many wonderful stories about him and time spent with him and some treasured moments. Sending love and prayers for all. 🙏💜🙏
Julie A Wells - Jan 2, 2024
I'm sorry for your loss.
Dick Paula Reber - Jan 2, 2024
We are sorry of your dad's passing. Such a great friend. Always a helping hand whenever you needed him. He will be missed
Linda Veletean - Jan 2, 2024
To all the family: I didn’t know you’re dad that well, but he always spoke and had a smile when we were in church. I’m sure you’ll miss him deeply. Prayers and sympathy to all of you.
Rhonda Fritz - Jan 2, 2024
Jane, so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Sending prayers for your whole family during this difficult time
John & Karen Overturf - Jan 2, 2024
Our deepest condolences on the passing of Jerry. Although we did not know him until his grandson Kevin married our daughter Erika, it was obvious he was deeply loved by his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren .
John & Karen Overturf - Jan 2, 2024
Our deepest condolences on the passing of Jerry. Although we did not know him until his grandson Kevin married our daughter Erika, it was obvious he was deeply loved by his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren .
Terri Bays Schmidt - Jan 2, 2024
I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. I always enjoyed talking with him. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Laura Baker - Jan 2, 2024
I’m very sorry for the lost of your sweet Dad . I loved all your loving stories and fun times. What a beautiful story of a life well lived. Everytime I say a Hail Mary I see childhood Anne with her father putting Vaseline on her cheeks as he said a pray for his children. Please know of my prayers for all of your family. What a reunion he will have with his blessed Carolyn and how special to start this new year with the Jesus . May your memories console you and prayers bring you through. Love you Big Anne!
Ron Daugherty - Jan 2, 2024
Dear Anne, I am so sorry your Dad lost his battle. I have been praying for him. Know that my love and prayers are with you and your family. Your Dad sounds like my kind of guy, I wish I had known him. ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Cindy Mahoney - Jan 2, 2024
Just a beautiful tribute to a man so obviously overwhelmingly loved. Prayers for comfort.
Maria - Jan 2, 2024
Now I see why you all are so welcoming and friendly. I am sorry for the loss of your father and grandfather. He sounds like a cool man. I'm sorry I didn't get to sit around the fire with him and get Euchered. My love to all of you.
WHS Class of 1984 - Jan 2, 2024
Sorry for your loss.
Your friends - Jan 2, 2024
Sorry for your loss
Donna Myers - Jan 2, 2024
To The McKown Family; What a beautiful story of a life so well lived. Living as he did for this day, we know he rests in the arms of his Savior, "Drop kicked straight through the goalposts of life". Keep those memories at heart, my sympathy.
Jim and Sandy Blum Family - Jan 2, 2024
Sorry for your loss. Prayers.
Cindy Phillips Lynch - Jan 2, 2024
Dear Cousins I liked your dad and will miss him. Peace and prayers